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SUCCESS

The meaning of Success is different for different people. There is no Universal Definition of success. For some people success is earning more, for some people success is being popular.

The question is that if the meaning of success is different for different people, then the path of success should also be different?

The answer is no. Success can only be achieved by walking on the path of Hard Work and Determination.

Everyone of us want to be success but most of us are not willing to give our time and effort. Everyone want to Be successful and most of us  can't sacrifice our enjoyment. We donot want to come out from our comfort zone. No one want to wake up early in the morning and go to practice, none of us want to sacrifice our  Sleep for working on our own project of Success.  We postpone our Dream because we have to go to party, friend's birthday or we have to watch our favorite serial or film. We easily say to us that we can do this work tomorrow because we have to sleep.  Comfort Zone is very beautiful place in this world but all of us know that nothing  can be grown there.

Success is not so easy that it can be achieved in such a way. We have to  come out from our comfort zone and have to sacrifice our enjoyment so that we can achieve what  we want.  Sacrifice your comfort zone today and live your whole life as a  successful person. If you read  the life of  any successful person either it may be Sachin Tendulkar or A.P.J.Abdul Kalam or any other you will find that they had struggled lot. They fought for their success.

You can also achieve success in your life but you must be determined towards your goal, you should never distract your mind from your goal, never afraid of being failure because failure is the steeping stone towards your goal.

  

Why am I?

 When we face any problem we always said Why I Am?

I am going to share a story with you.

There was a boy who always blame on God for his Life. One day he told the God that " You are the father of this world but you are unaware of our pain." Then God said that i am well aware of the pain of all the creature of this Earth. The  boy donot agree and told the God to live his life atleast for one day, so that God come to realize the pain of Human Being. God Agreed to him and said to boy to stand in place of god for the whole day and put a condition that when people come to him, he must remain silent. The boy  agreed and he promised the God that he will remain silent at all cost.

The very next morning both of them exchanged their place, God become the boy and the boy become the God.

In early morning a businessman came to temple and pray to God that "God i am your child and i am going to start a new business, please help me and my family to start this business and run it successfully." When he bowed his head his purse dropped from his pocket. Unaware  of this fact that businessman left the temple.  The boy want to told the Businessman that you left your purse but at that point he remembered his promise to keep silent.

After few minutes a poor man came to temple and pray to God to help him as his children were hungry. He found that purse and he thanked God.

After a few minutes a young boy came to temple and pray to God that he has his interview today so helped him to pass that interview. 

When the boy was praying to God the same business came to temple with  police and told the police that he lost his purse in this temple. Police asked the boy and told him to come to police station with them. At that point that boy who was in the place of God started  speaking and explained the whole story. The policemen, businessman and the young boy became happy. the police left the boy for interview and arrested that poor man.

In evening the real God returned back and asked him how the day was?

The boy replied that "Today i had done a very good job and narrated whole story."

God replied back that you broke your promise and you are still unaware of the fact that what mistake you had done. God told him that Businessman was going to start that business in which he will exploit the poor people. I want to stop him from starting this business that's why i made his purse fall in the temple. 

That poor person and his family were hungry so i gave that money to them. The young boy was going to interview and the building in which he has  interview will collapse and everyone in that building will die.

I made a beautiful plain to save poor people from exploitation,  provide money to poor people so that he alongwith his family get some meal and i also want to save that boy. My planning was much more higher than your thinking. 

I give pain to people so that they struggle and enjoy their success. I am kindhearted but you human being are unable to understand it. 

Like the same way God always want our best but we can't understand it.  So never curse your life nor to god but thank him for providing that life which is still the dream of many people. Never lose hope when you are facing the difficult situations of life because no one know what is going to happen tomorrow. Maybe tomorrow will be yours.

Jim Carrey

Today I am going to share a motivational story of Jim Carry, a famous Hollywood comedian.

When Carrey was 14 years old, his father lost his job, and his family hit rough times. They moved into a VW van on a relative’s lawn, and the young aspiring comedian—who was so dedicated to his craft that he mailed his resume to The Carroll Burnett Show just a few years earlier, at age 10—took an eight-hours-per-day factory job after school to help make ends meet.

At age 15, Carrey performed his comedy routine onstage for the first time—in a suit his mom made him—and totally bombed, but he was undeterred. The next year, at 16, he quit school to focus on comedy full time. He moved to LA shortly after, where he would park on Mulholland Drive every night and visualize his success. One of these nights he wrote himself a check for $10,000,000 for “Acting Services Rendered,” which he dated for Thanksgiving 1995. Just before that date, he hit his payday with Dumb and Dumber. He put the deteriorated check, which he’d kept in his wallet the whole time, in his father’s casket.

Jim Carry found the best way to motivate himself. He was the person who anticipated his own future by signing a check which motivate him everyday. He thought of the $10,000,000 and he won. Like the same way we  can also Dream and achieve it. Jim Carry  had a belief that he can Achieve his Dream, like the same way you must believe on yourself and on our dream. It is only you who can dream and can get success.

Excuses and Success

There are some people who always blame on others. They always give excuses of their failure and the common excuses are:

1. I am from a poor background, that's why i am not able to achieve success,

2. It is very difficult to do business in India or in any country because of such a complicated Tax Structure,  corruption. tough competition, etc

3.I am not good in study, that's why I am not selected in an interview

4. I am suffering from disease that's why i fail in exams, interview or in sports,

5. I want to start my own business but  I have no money,

6. I am unlucky 

There are many more excuses which we hear in our everyday life and we believe on all these excuses. Many times we also give excuse that we fail because of such and such reason. We developed a habit of blaming others and our situations  for our failure. 

We blame our country that there are so much corruption, complicated Tax Structure etc. After having all such problems India is producing Top Entrepreneurs, Sportsperson, scientist etc. Many of them are from poor background, financially weak and some of them suffer from deadly diseases. Even after facing so much of problem if they can achieve success then it is not the fault of our country nor  your luck and background. It is only your fault that you always give excuses instead of finding solutions of your problems.

Those people who got succeeds in live also faced lot of problems, many of them started their journey of success from Zero level. The only reason that they got success because they never complain on their situations but they focused on their Dream and achieved it.

Here the important question arises, How can we become like them that we can also get success in our life?

1st of all we must focus on our goal and instead of giving any excuses we should try to find the reason of our failure. If we start to think like that, then our mind start to find various solutions of our problems and clear the path of success. Change your Attitude and start to question yourself, "how we can achieve our goal?", instead of this negative thinking that we can't achieve our goal.  Suppose someone want to become a Businessman but he was suffering from financial problem, then he must start to think "how can i become a successful businessman even after suffering from financial problem?" instead of thinking "I can't become a businessman because i have no money.'' Then you will find that our mind started to think on the solutions of the problems in the path of becoming a successful business man rather than giving various excuses. We have to change our thinking and we find that there are many ways to achieve our Goal inspite of so much of problem. 

Please never blame on your country and your situations, it is only you who can achieve success inspite of all these problems then why to blame. From today change your attitude and be Positive in your life.

3 Types of People in this World

There are 3 type of people  in this World.

1. Those who left their life in the hands of situations.
      These type of people never think of changing their life. They put their life in the hands of their situations.        They start believing that they can't change their life and they start compromising themselves in front of             situations. They always say that it is impossible to change their life and they are happy with this lifestyle.        Most of us fall in this category.

2. Those who want to change their life and achieve success but don't want to come out from their         comfort zone.

    These type of people used to see dream but they don't want to come out from their comfort zone. They          used to see big dreams but never try for achieving it. These type of people can only see dreams but can't       take any steps. They give the excuses that it is Impossible for them to Achieve their Dream.

3. Those who Dream and Achieved it

     These type of people  dream big and put all their efforts in achieving their Dreams. They never Give             excuses and never blame on their situations but they fight against their situations. These type of people           achieve great success in their life whether they are in job or business or any field.

Now its time to think that we are in which category.

If you are in 1st category then you must have to change your attitude towards your life. Never let your life to depend on situations. Be positive towards your life and start to see big dreams.

If you are  in 2nd category then you must focus on your Dream. It is true that it is very difficult to achieve what we want but it is also possible to achieve what we Dream because many people achieved their Dream then why we can't? Someone said that if you are able to see Dreams then you are also capable to Achieve it.

WILMA RUDOLPH: A SUCCESS STORY OF OLYMPIC 1960

 In my last post DESTINY AND LUCK i had given the example of Wilma Rudolph, now in this post i am going to share her story.

 Wilma Rudolph was born in poor family in Tennessee. When she was 4 years old she fall ill. She was suffering from double pneumonia and scarlet fever because of which she become paralyzed. She was not able to walk and require brace to support her legs. Doctors told her that she can't walk on her feet for her lifetime. But at that situation she was dreaming of becoming the fastest runner in the world. When she was 9 years old she removed her brace and walked on her feet. When she was 13 years old she participated in race competition and she came last. After that she started to participate in all race competition but each and every time she last. She put all her effort and one day she came 1st in the race.

When she was 15 years old she met with the coach of Tennessee State University whose name was Ed Temple. When Wilma told her that she want to become the fastest runner in the world then Ed Temple told her that no one could stop her because of her will power and dedication.

After Practicing for long period she was selected in the Olympic. She has to run with Jutta Heine who was the best runner in the world at that time. Wilma had not only won the race with her but she won 3 Gold Medal in that Olympic. It was the Olympic game of 1960 and in that game a paralyzed woman won the gold medal.

What we learnt from her lesson?

Successful person can get success in their difficult time also, not only at that time when everything is favorable to them. If a Paralyzed girl can won the Gold Medal in Olympic then why we can't achieve success in our life. She achieved success because she had never given any excuses and she never thought of her problems. She always dream of becoming the fastest runner in the world and inspite of so much of problem she achieved her Dream.

To achieve success we must focus on our Dream and never complain of our situations because if we will never get our best situation. We have to start in that situation only and have to change our life, Success not only comes by only thinking of favorable situations but we have to fight with our Dream in dificult situations also.

DESTINY AND LUCK

There are some people who always blame their Destiny for their failure. These people always give excuses that because of their destiny or bad luck they are not able to gain success. They are not able to success because they are not lucky. They had done their best but after that they didn't have success. Since our childhood we always listen that Luck is very important to have Success and we start believing on it. Many times we see that in spite of doing the best a person lose the success.

In spite of doing so much of practise a sportsperson lose the game because he got injury during the Game. Many times we prepare our best in Exams but before the starting the Exam we start feeling fever. Is this luck or something else?

Since our childhood we always hear that some people are very lucky and some are born unlucky.

If you are lucky, then congrats but if you think that you are unlucky, then this Post is for you.

Friends if you think that you are unlucky, then you have 2 options,

1.       Either you cry and blame your Destiny, or

2.       Fight against your Destiny and do your Best.

Friends we are not born to cry on our Destiny, we have to fight it. When you read the stories of Successful people then you will find that they are not lucky but they fight. Mary Kom was not lucky, she born in poor family and belongs to very backward area of India but she won Gold Medal for India. Wilma Rudolph was paralysed. Doctors told her that she can never walk on her Feet. She wanted to become The Fastest Runner in the world but Nature had not done any justice with her. She was suffering from polio was use brace to support her legs but she fight against her Destiny. At last she won the Gold medal in Olympic in 1960.

For giving the performance of 10 seconds in Olympic sportsperson spent their 10 years of life in practise. Are they Lucky? No they are not lucky, they faced the Difficulties and fight for their Dream. Everyone face difficult situations, and I know that you are also facing lot of difficulties in fulfilling your Dream but remember that in spite of so much of problem it is only you and only you who can make your Dream true because if a person is able to see the Dream then he is also able to Achieve it. If these people can achieve their Dream, ten why you can’t? But for Achieving your Dream you must have to:

1.       Believe on work not on Destiny,

2.       Never be afraid of facing the situation,

3.       Read the stories of those people who got success in your field even facing the same problem which you are facing.

  

Friends never think that you are Unlucky, Luck only favor those who struggle. Struggle for Dream.

Hard Work and Talent

Everyone have desire to get success but they don’t have desire to make preparation for it.

Success never comes by luck but we have to work very hard to gain it. Most of us want to be success but they never give their effort and time for it. Lot of Determination, discipline and patience is required to gain it. Henry Ford told that “the more you work hard, more the luck favour you.”

If a person is setting in front of Dictionary and he want to learn words from it without touching it, then he is making fool himself. He has to open the Dictionary and have to learn the words. Like the same way without hard work no one can get talent.

In our daily life we see that some person is far better than other or a student is very much good in studies among all his/her friend or some is very good in sports. Why they are so good and rest of people is lacking behind?  The reason is that they give time to their work and they work much harder than rest of people. Talent do not come only by Dreaming but we have to Work hard to achieve it. Talents are developed by beating hours and hours of your craft.  

Fiends if you want to achieve anything in your life than you must work hard. There is no any other alternative of hard work.  If you work hard then you can also become talented. You can also Get a very good marks in Exams. No one in this world can stop you if you start working hard for your Dream either it may be getting 1^st Rank in class or in job or in any field.

One Day a person told the Great Violin Player Fritz Kreisler that “I can spend my whole life to learn to play violin like you.” Then Fritz Kreisler told his that he had already spent whole his life to learn violin.

Many people say that they can’t become successful person because they have no talent. They are right because if you are not able to believe on yourself, then how can you get success.

If you say that “you can” and if you say that “you can’t” in the both case you are correct. 

WHY WE SHOULD NEVER QUIT

Friend in this life everyone face difficult situations. Many times we lose Hope that there is no Chance to get Success and it is better to Quit. At that Point of Life  when every thing is Unfavourable to Us we think it is Better to Quit.

Quit is one of the Easiest option available  to Human Being and that is Why most of the people Accept it.

But some people Never accept this easiest option which is acceptable by most people because they want to Be different. They tell that we should never Quit Because:

1. We started the journey to achieve our Dream and Without Achieving it, if we quit then we will Never remain Happy.  Someone told that "If u want 2 Quit at any point of your journey to Success, Then stop there and think Why I started this journey".
2.  We should Never Quit because we Already face lot of Troubles, difficulties and Pain. Now it is the Time to Get Reward of Our Pain.
3. If we quit  then we will never get the Reward of The Pain which we Suffered.
4. Success Only comes to Those Who Have Capability to face the Difficult Situations.

UNIVERSE

Universe here refers that u can do any this which u want.  U has the capability to Dream and u have the capability to make your Dream true. Human is born with enormous power and it also has the power to change the world. It is Human who can create Machines, who can create Happiness, who can stand even in Difficulties. Thomas Edison was a Human who Invented Light Bulb Even after Failure of More than 10,000 times. Wright Brothers was also a Human Being who made the people to fly in the Sky. There r still more Examples.

If they can do then why we can’t?

 From Today change your Attitude and Start 2 think in Positive Way.

It is u who has to Dream and who has to achieve it.